Tom is a very high end executive coach. He sat me down one day and shared with me what a powerful woman he thought I was and wanted to help me find that relationship I desired so deeply. Tom and I had a very strong and honest conversation about what he perceived to be blocking me to find a healthy relationship. He got in my face and basically told me that I needed to stop wasting time on dead end relationships, lousy self esteem and realize my own potential and magnificence. We talked about doing some coaching together, however it was too expensive for me at the time. However, that one conversation changed my life. After my conversation with Tom, I decided that I had all the resources within me and around me to do this kind of self coaching on my own. I started with the premise that Tom shared with me. I was a powerful, magnificent woman who absolutely deserved to have a healthy wonderful relationship in my life and be joyously married. This on its own made all the difference in the world. I decided that I was going to bring my self esteem out of the gutter and step into the woman I was meant to be.